I was just thinking the other day, we worry about so much. Yes, of course it is positive to show and feel concern. It is compassionate to be concerned about other people’s wellbeing e.g. but it is so easy for concern to cross the line and become obsessive worry: How is that going to work out? Will it be okay? I have been thinking about the times when I have worried about things and how it has turned into stress. Next stop after that is that it takes so much energy from us, sometimes it can take us into a black hole that it is difficult to get out from.
I include myself too, I might be a medium, but I hope I am still a human being too.
As I look back on my own life, much of the things I have worried about was completely unnecessary and just caused stress. The things that I worried about ultimately proved to be quite positive when I realised the outcome or the solution. Sometimes it has proved to be very beneficial both to myself and others. Ascala has said to me many times: “I told you not to worry, but you did not listen.”
How many of you have had the same realisations about unnecessary worry, i.e. when you cross the line from just being concerned and it turns into real worry?
The positive effect for me is it brings me back to myself and tells me that just because I am a medium and a teacher I also need to have these feelings and cross these lines. Sometimes I discover something new within myself.
I just thought I would share this with you. I look forward to hear your comments!
I suddenly hear the words: Don’t worry, Be happy!